abrasiveness

noun
1
a rough quality in a substance that can be used to clean a surface or make it smooth
زبری, سایندگی, خراشندگی
2
the fact of being rude and unkind in a way that may hurt other people’s feelings
بی‌ادبی, رفتار خشن, لحن زننده, زبان نیشدار
His abrasiveness frequently annoyed his teammates.